“May we, together, give testimony to the world”


It is with this view in mind that the team of basic formation at regional level organised a session on interculturality for all the formation houses in D.R. Congo. The event took place in the regional house complex, which consists of the regional house itself, the philosophical seminary and the propedeutic, from 21/03/2009 to 22/03/2009. It was attended by the members of four different communities- the three formation houses (the propedeutic, the seminary Antonio Barbero (philosophy), and the theological community), plus our confreres in the regional house.
Fr. Bauduoin, O.M.I., Rector of the Theological Institute of Saint Eugene Mazenod, who is a specialist in the world of interculturality, animated the session. He commenced by dividing the lecture into three parts: firstly, internationality and interculturality, their chances and challenges; secondly, self-knowledge; and thirdly, the community life.
The father continued that our capacity to manage the differences found in different cultures and nations is very important for a today’s missionary. Hence he went ahead to define interculturality as the capacity and the act of integrating and assimilating and living different cultures from different countries and different backgrounds. Interculturality is said to have been realized where members from different nationalities and different backgrounds live together in an harmonious and integral manner. If this is realized, then missionary and religious life would be possible, and the communities would live in harmony and in the love of Christ, who send his apostles to the whole world to preach to all nations, to all cultures. On the contrary, the facilitator regretted that this does not happen more often. Sometimes, these cultural differences are badly managed that more often than ever we have conflicts and misunderstandings in various religious and missionary communities.

Unfortunately, the going out of the self is not always an easy game, for there is always a fear/ insecurity caused by seeing the other as a threat. Hence, it needs a lot of courage.
When two or several cultures meet, a third or a new culture has to be born, which has its specificity different from those of the former ones. In forming the third or the new culture, the point of reference should never be one of the cultures which have met, but Christ himself, motivated by the spirit or the charism of the founder, and made practical by the foot-notes/contributions of each member.
In missionary and religious life, the community plan/project of life (C.P.L) becomes the third or the other specific culture of each community. This specific culture (C.P.L) becomes rich when every member of the community is willing to give and receive mutually from the other. Hence the idea that one’s culture is superior to the others, which might more often lead one to impose his culture on others, should be discouraged.
In order to be able to know the other better, it is necessary first to know oneself, for the knowing and appreciating of the self allows one to create equilibrium in oneself. This adventure of self discovery starts in asking the questions: who/what am I? Who/what do I want to become? Who/what am I able to become? What am I capable/incapable of? Then the following exercise will follow: introspect into inner self, go into one’s obscurity, discover one’s strengths, limits, accept and welcome them with humility and authenticity, and learn how to dominate over one’s weaknesses/limits.
A person who does not accept himself cannot accept the others, for he makes some resistance by saying that “I am who/what I am”, instead of making some efforts to better himself and become a free person. A free person is the one who lives an equilibrium life with himself and with the others in trust. It is only after self- knowledge and encounter that one can go out of himself and reach the other with trust and confidence, for at the moment he can create some space in himself for the other. It is only when one masters his house very well that he can always make some new arrangements in order to accommodate his ever growing family, and even so to accommodate not only his frequent visitors, but also the unexpected ones.
After all that, one can now go out of himself and present himself before the other with all confidence and authenticity-that the other may take and accept me as I am, and him as he is, that we accept one another with sincerity “not to be ashamed of who/what I am” – that is the greatest principle of being truthful to oneself and to live happily with the other.

But with whom can we form a community? A community is very different from a friendship or a marriage. While in friendship or in marriage it’s us who choose a certain friend or companion who has the kind of characters we like, in forming a community, it’s God who chooses for us a confrere with whom to live with, whether he has the qualities we like or not, “friends we choose them, but not the confreres. It is God who gives them to us, we accept them with faith” Therefore, we are expected to have much faith, confidence, trust, courage, sacrifice, maturity and understanding in every community life. But, we should not forget the fact that we have to be different in order that the community be complete, otherwise it will no longer be a community. But yet, we must not expect the same rhythm from every member, for each member operate at a certain rhythm. What we should do is to encourage one another, while giving each member an equal chance, at the same time discouraging the weaknesses “All injuries/wounds can get healed/cured, but not at the same rhythm, as we often think”
“Interculturality is a challenge, but also a chance in the world”
The facilitator concluded his lecture by leaving us a series of questions to reflect on:
*Which are our frequent points of divergence, and why?
*Which are our frequent points of convergence, and how can we live them in common?
Fr. Kota, imc, is currently doing his mission in Côte d’Ivoire, at that time he was in D.R. Congo for his holidays.
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